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You know, you walk in anywhere wearing "practical" men’s shoes with a suit, unfortunately people (in particular women people) mark you as being a "hump" from that point on, and a hump aint going to get too much of the good oil now. Unsubscribe from all the extra TV channels you have got - you don’t need them. Watch less TV - really you must cut back on this 13. Trust me, in my friendship groups over the years I have seen the dependable perpetual single guy who the girls in our group look to for support "you are my best friend", "you are like a brother to me" and some girls need this kind of guy. that guy never gets anywhere - best he gets is to hold her hand and put his arm around her shoulder when some cool guy (her boyfriend) has dumped her, sneak a downwards peek, and that's it! Rest assured, as witnessed countless times, all those girls in the group (who are so sweet and nice) keep on dating cooler guys than the "nice guy", and who dates (or more?
From recall of your previous thread, it appears she is a bit of a user (unintentional, don’t get me wrong) and is probably spoilt - I wouldn’t trust her.and she said "coz i knew if I did, u wud wait for me..." then I went "but i waited anyway, right? I think you don't trust her, and you shouldn't.If she really thought you were the "number one and only" for her, then she'd have been with you years ago.She said she doesn't want to be selfish and it's not fair for me to wait for her (in fact, many times), yet I waited anyway...she never told me whether she likes me or not when I asked, she claimed that she didn't know so I really shouldn't wait. cheers Hey Fatkid, Didn't you do that on a thread some time ago - about some girl who wasn't sure, got back together with her ex-b.f., used you are a sounding board and emotional support mechanism, lead you on/off/on/...?This may sound a little weird, but it will really help you a lot! Walk your own dog if your maid is doing it, at least part of the time. This is a bit pricey, but get a new suit made (Although winter is approaching, just use Summer materials as cheaper and in any event it don’t get really cold in HK), and get 3 new shirts made for you. If you are using the same shoes to go to work day in day out you have to stop that (bad for your feet and your tinia anyhow). IMPORTANT - make sure if you do some of the above that you don’t become one of those quasi-men, you know the type who present as oh so sensitive, in touch with everything- frankly it is insipid and you'll end up attracting women same or similar to that of the subject in question. Be a man, not a whiney girly-boy (not saying you are ok, but make sure you are not ok). Also, adopt a more masculine persona - from you posts and the previous one it sounds like you may be a soft-touch for a co-dependent personality, and you know you don’t want that !
You need really 2 or 3 pairs at least, and alternate. Keep a pair of 1/2 decent slip-on's under the desk (shoes that is! you can always change etc when at work, then put the nicer ones back on for commuting and lunching purposes. How about getting a little interest in rugby, or if you are from the US that game they play there where they throw a football forwards. make sure you have male friends ok, cos even though it may be fun hanging with the girls, that's all it'll ever be.
no, sghe avoids you because she doesn'tlike you, or finds your personality/presence somewaht uncomfortable.
If she likes you, she will let you know subtly, and may keep a healthy distance if it a workpalce issue.
Perhaps do a complete re-arrangement of your furniture, get a new rug, (and replace anything that is clapped out).
This helps give separation from the old Fat Kid and the new Fat Kid. Replenish yourself with something you once enjoyed but no longer do (piano, flute, wax-works modelling (or mild sport, nothing too strenuous for you just yet) 4. Get new bed linen when you move, and throw out the mismatching kitchen ware (new stuff is pretty cheap) 7.
Change your daily lifestyle (do some activity like walking before work for only fifteen minutes), or something - you need routine! Spend 30 mins at Watsons, or a good Park N Shop, and buy new toothpaste, toothbrush, mouth gargle, shampoo, Nivea face wash/gel/cleanser (depending upon your type of skin) sniff all the deodorants and get a more talc smelling one (Adidas series are ok and not too expensive), get floss, new razors and cream (different brand).