First message on a dating website
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Responding to a few items in a person’s profile will take somewhere between three and eight sentences; if you find yourself writing a six-paragraph missive, work that delete key.
That's why I stay away from the cute, silly openers. No girl is going to want to go out with some weird looking guy just because he has a witty opener.
This is how to send a semi-decent online dating message in nine easy steps.
A one-sentence message probably isn’t saying enough, but you also don’t want to send a novel.
Just gets things going in a more interesting way than "hey".
I messaged this to a girl one time and she responded with "I don't have much on my profile, but thanks..blah blah".
Anytime a girl has an obvious travel photo, it's an easy opener: "looks like you've done some traveling, where are you going next" "what places are on your 2014 travel bucket list" If you recognize the city (NYC can be super obvious) "I was just in NYC, had a blast, how did you like it" etc. I word it like this: "hmmm, you kinda look like you could be trouble" or if she looks super slutty I'll be more direct: "yup, you're definitely trouble" There's no script that will get amazing results from every type of girl for every man. The message that you write for a party skank is different from an artsy girl is different from a corporate drone, etc.
A quick cold-read of their ethnic background works decently for me at getting replies. Instead I try to be a little sophisticated, then move it of OKC to facebook so they know I'm not going to murder them/text, and then meet up. In a seller's market like this it's best to let the ladies shop for you online. All the work he put in and the one that messaged him he girlfriended up. It's kinda hard when you're interests are programming, drinking and trolling forums.
Funny is good, but if you are not actually funny, don’t strain anything trying to be.
Straightforward and nice is infinitely better than trying to be funny and failing miserably. There are lots of reasons why someone might not message you back. Now have patience, or set your sights on one of the 10,000 other single people in your area.
I'm not going to say these lines always work, but I don't think any line does.
Girl's who visit your profile are much more inclined to want to meet, because they clicked on you for a reason (i.e.
You checked me out and didn't say hi" It has a very high return response rate.